In this part of the series, I’ll talk about the vicious circle of happy praying vs sad praying, and how to overcome this dilemma. The most common religious advice would be: ‘Pray even when you have a problem’. Why? To make God happy? How come? Because God would know that you haven’t abandoned his name despite your personal issues.
Before going any further I can say categorically that – My God is not happy when I am sad, nor is he testing me when I am already down. So, what’s the best way forward?
Here’s how it works for me: I pray when feeling down but with the hope of getting a helping hand from Nirankar to stand back up. I don’t feign ‘to be happy’ in my situation, nor pretend to be brave because God knows what’s in my heart, not just what’s on my lips.
I also don’t forget to thank God in success, however small or great the reward might be. This is so that one shouldn’t take life for granted, and time is like a pendulum- swinging between good and bad. This relationship with the maker of reaching out for his help when fallen down, and bowing to thank him when standing up, continues throughout life.
Frustration occurs when the pendulum doesn’t swing to the good side for a long time, drying the last drop of positivity hanging in the scorching sun of challenges. The mind starts playing tricks- either hallucinating the cool shade, or rebellion in self-righteousness. But neither works. Why? To know this, one needs to know one’s own mind- the ground needs to be assessed before sowing the seed.
So, the key here is to understand yourself thoroughly, then learn and practise to stay in the positive zone as long as possible. You are the pendulum in the clock of time- your life.
Now, the only small detail left to understand is – how to know yourself thoroughly? Most of us think we know ‘Me’, but most of us are mistaken. This is a tall wall that keeps manifestation out. The prime job of an individual who wishes to be happy is to learn the technique to break this wall.
Hence, getting information and gaining from the experience of someone else is a definite head start and saves a lot of hardship and time wasted in hits and trials. Isn’t time the most crucial factor in life? If the answer is affirmative then, please press on one of the links below to prepare yourself to win.
One of the chapters in my book, The 3Fs of Law Of Attraction, describes the process of building a complete self, which is based on my own organic experience of converting all the trials into one successful Hit. But as I always insist- Your free choice; no pressure.
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